How to instantly connect with
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3.TWELVE L ITTLE T RICKS
to Develop an Extraordinary Gift of Gab
to Develop an Extraordinary Gift of Gab
22.How to Never Hesitate Starting or Joining a Conversation
23.How to Make Your Point When You Keep Getting Interrupted
do not preface a point with the identical words each time
It made you sound fixated on saying one thing rather than following the conversation.
Give a Different Preface to Introduce Your Same Point
So as not to sound like you are perseverating on the same idea.preface your
point with diff erent words the next time around.
point with diff erent words the next time around.
Your listeners will never guess you were going make your original point.
Old wine in new bottles works every time.
EXAMPLES
Many people have a different opinion, but mine is that Jennifer should have . . .”
“Considering the situation, don’t you think that Jennifer should have . . .”
“I know the tabloids went crazy, but don’t you think that Jennifer should have . .
“Considering the situation, don’t you think that Jennifer should have . . .”
“I know the tabloids went crazy, but don’t you think that Jennifer should have . .
24.How to Make Friends with Those Who Don’t Speak Your Native Language
you must slow your speech down—way down.
To connect with non-native people, you
need to learn a new, very simple language. It’s called
Really, Really Slowly Spoken English.
need to learn a new, very simple language. It’s called
Really, Really Slowly Spoken English.
25.How to Tailor Your Talk to Your Listener(s)
Match Your Words to Their Educational Level
Diversity isn’t just race, color, and creed. It’s
linguistic, too—even though it is all the same
language.
linguistic, too—even though it is all the same
language.
26.Don’t Speak of Your “Haves” with “Have-Nots”
Never talk about a luxury that would be unobtainable
for the person(s) you are communicating with.
for the person(s) you are communicating with.
Many “necessities” of life to the middle class
are unheard-of luxuries to those in less privileged
circumstances.
are unheard-of luxuries to those in less privileged
circumstances.
Keep your diff erences a secret, and
celebrate your similarities
celebrate your similarities
27.How to Save Someone from “Dying of Embarrassment”
Her Emotional Prediction Tried to Save Me
If the speaker says something that she may soon
realize is mistaken, mispronounced, or just plain
dumb, quickly jump in and cover it.
realize is mistaken, mispronounced, or just plain
dumb, quickly jump in and cover it.
Say something
distracting rapidly so there is little time for it to
dawn on her that she’s been a dimwit.
distracting rapidly so there is little time for it to
dawn on her that she’s been a dimwit.
28.How to Smoothly Change the Subject
Echo Their Words and Link Them to Yours
To change the subject, repeat or rephrase the most
recent speaker’s words or idea, then tie it to yours.
recent speaker’s words or idea, then tie it to yours.
If you include or allude to what someone just said,
people won’t even notice that you’ve changed the
topic!
people won’t even notice that you’ve changed the
topic!
Of course, there are many times when you should not
change the subject, no matter how boring it is for you.
change the subject, no matter how boring it is for you.
29.How to Know When to Never Change the Subject
Never Change a Subject Someone Else
Finds Special
Finds Special
30.How to Not Give the Same Answer Twice
Use Different Words the Second Time You
Must Answer the Same Question
Must Answer the Same Question
Save someone’s face (and possibly her friendship) by
responding to her repeated question with diff erent
words.
responding to her repeated question with diff erent
words.
Then quickly continue the conversation
so she doesn’t have time to register her fumble.
so she doesn’t have time to register her fumble.
4.TEN L ITTLE T RICKS
to Actually Enjoy Parties!
to Actually Enjoy Parties!
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